If you keep falling into heartbreak over and over again, Or if you keep holding on to someone who treats you badly, That could be a sign that you have a twisted definition of love. How we grow up can twist a wrong definition of love into our mindsets. You get loved the wrong way and still call it love, or you love others the wrong way and fail to understand why they walk away. Last time I wrote a...
It’s difficult to forget someone who gave you so much to remember. You wish you could press a button, switch off all the feelings for him, and forget that the two of you ever happened. And no matter how many times you try, it feels like you are pressing an unresponsive button – nothing happens. Since time is said to heal everything, you leave the heartache to time. Then when you start...
Emma was wild. She was that 24-year-old who still slammed doors in her mum’s face like she used to in her teenage years. She was struggling with drinking habits and, above all, relationship issues. Almost all the men she had loved, dated, and gone to clubs with, would dump her, cheat on her or she would later realize they were married men. One day after another bitter heartbreak, she...
More dreams die due to a lack of courage rather than a lack of means to achieve them. That means one of the most underrated words in the world is words of encouragement. An encouraged mind finds a way, but a discouraged mind can be shown a way and still sit on it rather than walk it. Today’s wisdom lesson is meant to give you words of encouragement. These inspirational words will help you achieve...
When Arnold Schwarzenegger left the bodybuilding industry and embarked into acting – he boldly declared that he was going to be one of the most famous actors in the world. And he did it. He became the most in-demand actor in Hollywood, a main actor in over 52 movies including The Terminator, and has a net worth of over US$ 450 million (Biography). Then let’s talk of Steve Jobs, founder of Apple...
Purpose in your heart to NEVER be a burden to anyone. You become a slave to whosoever sets you free. – MOFFAT MACHINGURA Only when you learn to set your own self free, do you truly become a master of your life. I am NOT saying don’t depend on anyone, that doesn’t happen, independence is an illusion. We live for others and others live for us. I am saying live in such a way that those you...
Do you ever feel like love is playing hide-and-seek with you? In my love and relationships workshops, I meet many people who’ve searched for love for years, but keep getting hurt. I ask them, “What are you truly looking for?” They often say, “I just want someone to make me happy. Is that too much to ask?” From their answer, I can often see a few unhealthy ways...
Have you ever looked back at a past relationship and realized the warning signs were there all along? Most times red flags don’t look red, they look like a passionate beautiful pink until they hurt us. Today let’s learn how to recognize signs of an unhealthy relationship, those toxic behaviors that can turn love into a battlefield. Is your partner constantly leaving you bruised, but...
Sometimes looking for knowledge can be a way of running away from applying what you already know. A form of procrastination. Laziness can make you work hard looking for more knowledge when the little you know is enough to get you started. You will find lots of wisdom here, and in this life, but what will change your life is your determination to apply the wisdom that you learn. If something seems...
