CategoryLove Advice

The fact that you love each other doesn’t mean you can live together. Don’t just look for someone that you love, look for someone that you can both love and live with. – MOFFAT MACHINGURA Today you are about to learn 13 signs of a hubby material, the most basic qualities of a good husband. If you don’t know what you are looking for you will never know when you have found it, and you...

I once posted an article on 5 Types of Guys to Avoiding Dating at all Costs. Today I’m answering one of the biggest questions in love relationships. Why do Good Girls Find Bad Guys? And if bad boys really like being bad, why don’t they just find bad girls too? Well, let’s face it dear sometimes bad things happen to good people. And if that bad is a person, there are three reasons in the free book...

While writing my book How I Kissed Heartbreak Goodbye, David asked “Sir Moffat, are there types of women I should avoid getting into a relationship with?” So today let me share with you what I placed in that book – five dating red flags to watch out for in a woman. Warning to Boys: To love a scorpion is to set yourself up for a sting. You must learn to recognize red flags in a relationship...

Some women have painful attraction – they keep falling for men who bring sorrow and pain. They can’t see the following signs of a bad guy. As I write in the book How I Kissed Heartbreak Goodbye, The fact that you love him doesn’t mean you can live with him – MOFFAT MACHINGURA Forewarned is forearmed, here are 5 Types of Guys you should avoid dating no matter how in love you feel. When you see...

Whosoever said marriage is not an achievement, didn’t have a good one. Good Marriages are an Achievement. – MOFFAT MACHINGURA When your business is bad you can’t call your business an achievement, but when it succeeds you call it the best achievement of your life. That’s the same with marriage. You can only say it’s NOT an achievement when it’s not working. If...

If you keep falling into heartbreak over and over again, Or if you keep holding on to someone who treats you badly, That could be a sign that you have a twisted definition of love. How we grow up can twist a wrong definition of love into our mindsets. You get loved the wrong way and still call it love, or you love others the wrong way and fail to understand why they walk away. Last time I wrote a...

It’s difficult to forget someone who gave you so much to remember. You wish you could press a button, switch off all the feelings for him, and forget that the two of you ever happened. And no matter how many times you try, it feels like you are pressing an unresponsive button – nothing happens. Since time is said to heal everything, you leave the heartache to time. Then when you start...

Emma was wild. She was that 24-year-old who still slammed doors in her mum’s face like she used to in her teenage years.  She was struggling with drinking habits and, above all, relationship issues. Almost all the men she had loved, dated, and gone to clubs with, would dump her, cheat on her or she would later realize they were married men. One day after another bitter heartbreak, she...

Purpose in your heart to NEVER be a burden to anyone. You become a slave to whosoever sets you free. – MOFFAT MACHINGURA Only when you learn to set your own self free, do you truly become a master of your life. I am NOT saying don’t depend on anyone, that doesn’t happen, independence is an illusion. We live for others and others live for us. I am saying live in such a way that those you...

Do you ever feel like love is playing hide-and-seek with you? In my love and relationships workshops, I meet many people who’ve searched for love for years, but keep getting hurt. I ask them, “What are you truly looking for?” They often say,  “I just want someone to make me happy. Is that too much to ask?” From their answer, I can often see a few unhealthy ways...