MOFFAT MACHINGURA

If you keep falling into heartbreak over and over again, Or if you keep holding on to someone who treats you badly, That could be a sign that you have a twisted definition of love. How we grow up can twist a wrong definition of love into our mindsets. You get loved the wrong way and still call it love, or you love others the wrong way and fail to understand why they walk away. Last time I wrote a post about Zandie, a beautiful lady wondering how to move on from an ex who keeps coming back . Today we are using Zandie’s question to understand how our childhood upbringing influences the types of people we love. If you have already read Zandie’s full question, simply skip it and get straight into today’s wisdom; but if this is your first time hearing of Zandie, here is the question again for context: ZANDIE’S QUESTION ZANDIE: I already feel like crying. It’s like I have a wound that won’t heal.  I first loved this guy called James four years ago. In the first year we

It's difficult to forget someone who gave you so much to remember. You wish you could press a button, switch off all the feelings for him, and forget that the two of you ever happened. And no matter how many times you try, it feels like you are pressing an unresponsive button - nothing happens. Since time is said to heal everything, you leave the heartache to time. Then when you start to feel like you are healing and remembering that person less... Ex sends you a "Hi" and the heart begins to ache again. How do you move on from an ex that keeps coming back? How do you let go of someone that wants to hold on to you? Today we use Zandie's situation to find that answer. ZANDIE: I already feel like crying. It’s like I have a wound that won’t heal.  I first loved this guy called James four years ago. In the first year we broke up but I just couldn’t move on – I remained stuck on him. There was no sex, I lost nothing else except him. But still I couldn’t move on. Two

Emma was wild. She was that 24-year-old who still slammed doors in her mum’s face like she used to in her teenage years.   She was struggling with drinking habits and, above all, relationship issues. Almost all the men she had loved, dated, and gone to clubs with, would dump her, cheat on her or she would later realize they were married men. One day after another bitter heartbreak, she visited home. When her mother saw that sunken face, she knew it was another “Boy Left Me” sob story… “Mum I want to get married to a good man. A loving and God-fearing man you know...” “Yes I know dear,” her mother replied, “you are looking for a good man, but do you think good men are looking for you?” You are looking for a good man, but do you think good men are looking for you? - MOFFAT MACHINGURA That was the thorn in the flesh for Emma. That was the cause for almost all her relationship problems. She was looking for a good person, but she never set down to consider if any good pers

More dreams die due to a lack of courage rather than a lack of means to achieve them. That means one of the most underrated words in the world is words of encouragement. An encouraged mind finds a way, but a discouraged mind can be shown a way and still sit on it rather than walk it. Today’s wisdom lesson is meant to give you words of encouragement. These inspirational words will help you achieve your goals and live your best life, forever! The three keys are: Key 1. The Principle of One Thing Word of Encouragement: Focusing on one thing at a time, increases your chances of achieving your goal; but focusing on too many things at a time, increases your chances of quitting on all of them. Learn to narrow down all your desires to one main desire at a time. This year only hold "One thing" that you desire for your life, or for your Business. Just one main thing. A person who desires too many things at once will likely end up with none. Don't try to catch 2

When Arnold Schwarzenegger left the bodybuilding industry and embarked into acting – he boldly declared that he was going to be one of the most famous actors in the world. And he did it. He became the most in-demand actor in Hollywood, a main actor in over 52 movies including The Terminator, and has a net worth of over US$ 450 million ( Biography ). Then let’s talk of Steve Jobs , founder of Apple, the first United States company to be worth a trillion dollars. Steve was asked what drove him to pursue such crazy goals and big dreams. Without any self-doubt, his response was “I want to put a dent on the universe.” In other words, he wanted to make sure that one day when the history of mankind is told, the era he lived should be a point or dent in time when humanity most rapidly progressed -  due to his influence. Just like Arnold – Steve did it. Adolf Hitler was twelve years old when he bitterly told his mom “Mom, one day I’m going to change the world!” And he did it. Y