The fact that you love each other doesn’t mean you can live together. Don’t just look for someone that you love, look for someone that you can both love and live with.

– MOFFAT MACHINGURA

Today you are about to learn 13 signs of a hubby material, the most basic qualities of a good husband.

If you don’t know what you are looking for you will never know when you have found it, and you can mistake anything you find for it.

Domestic or Wild?

In life there are domestic animals and wild animals.

The buffalo and the ox are similar, but we never make the mistake of keeping the buffalo at home just as if it’s an ox.

A buffalo will break your furniture, and break you for trying to stop it.

There are domestic cats that we keep in our homes, but there are other cats that live in the wild (like lions, tigers and leopards…).

That’s the same with people. We are all humans, but some are wild and some are domestic.

Some are home makers, but some are lifetime wanderers.

There are signs of a husband material, so if you are looking for a good husband material here is the perfect page.

Dear Women…

Forget the Beauty and the Beast, there is no kiss that can turn a beast into a prince.

That’s a Disney lie.

Some men are wild, and no amount of loving them will bring them home.

– MOFFAT MACHINGURA

Dear Men…

You can’t make a whore into a housewife – well you can but don’t be surprised if she starts doing whorish things.

– WWW.SIRMOFFAT.COM

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For now, here are 13 Signs of a Good Husband Material (Signs of a Hubby Material).

13 Signs of a Good Husband Material

1. Slow to Anger, Quick to Calm Down

Some ladies actually settle for a men who is quick to be angry and slow to calm down.

She thinks she can calm him down, but years down the marriage lane she finds that was the worst mistake of her life.

Usually, in marriage, if the man is a boxer he remains a boxer, it’s only the wife that transforms from wifey to punch-bag.

– MOFFAT MACHINGURA

2. Mature (Now Possesses Deep Understanding of Life)

A man is a leader and leadership requires wisdom, knowledge and self-discipline. A man who cannot lead himself into good habits and achieving his goals – lacks the qualities to lead his family.

3. He Has a High Positive Regard for Marriage and Family

Let’s face it,

If you are not dating for marriage you are dating for heartbreak.

– MOFFAT MACHINGURA

A good man has a high regard for marriage and family. It’s among his personal goals and it’s URGENT for him.

Beware of these guys who keep saying “I’m not thinking about family” or “I’m still too young for something serious.”

Girl, your clock is ticking, don’t ignore it just like those boys are ignoring theirs.

4. Open and Transparent

Some men are secretive about everything – from phone, to bank account, and some even hide where they work.

You can’t share your life with a man that keeps you out of his.

– MOFFAT MACHINGURA

That journey cannot last.

5. Honest

He doesn’t lie because he loves you, he lies because he is a liar.

A liar loves himself more than anything or anyone else.

6. God fearing

I don’t mean church attendance or posting verses on Facebook.

Character is who you are when nobody is watching.

You know he fears God by how much he longs to obey God’s commandments, even when his sexual feelings are urging him to disobey them.

7. Hardworking

Hardwork can beat talent if talent doesn’t work hard.

Beware of a guy who has never achieved anything in his life – he is a loser at school, at church, at sport, at business, and can’t even dance or sing.

Usually it’s simply because he is plain lazy.

8. Humorous

He might not be a stand up comedian, there are very few Trevor Noahs in a lifetime…

But he needs to be a person who can laugh, and whose jokes makes you laugh.

9. Faithful

Dating an unfaithful man is hard, but marrying such a man is worse.

And don’t think marriage will change him – remember what I said in the book How I Kissed Heartbreak Goodbye –

A wedding ring is just a piece of metal around a finger, it doesn’t change a beast into prince.

– MOFFAT MACHINGURA

10. Can keep his relationship issues to himself

Imagine a man who tells his whole family and clan about your misunderstandings.

He is not trying to solve the situation, he is just trying to be white by tainting you black.

It’s difficult to resolve issues with that kind of a person.

11. He can take your advice

I know of this other guy, he wouldn’t take advice from his fiancee.

They were 15 years apart.

He would tell her “Keep quiet, you are a little child!”

The girl couldn’t imagine a future with that kind of a man.

If he is still that old “I don’t take advice from a woman” chap, then his pride is too high to share and build anything in life with.

12. Romantic

A good man should be sweet.

Life is too long to keep up with Mr. Serious who is grumpy about everything you do.

Maybe you are saying “What if it’s not his nature?” – Every man is sweet towards a woman that his heart true loves.

Love is what we do. It doesn’t matter how good we feel for someone if we still act unkindly towards them, It’s NOT love.

13. He Enjoys Bathing and Looking Good

It’s simple really – nobody likes a chapa! (an African word for a dirty scruffy person who detests bathing).

These are the 13 Characteristics of a Husband material. Soon, I will give you 13 characteristics of a wife material.

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Bottom Line…

Being a husband is not easy, and so is being a wife – so don’t expect it from any creature you meet simply because that creature walks on two legs.

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