SOPHIA: How can a woman tell the difference between a man who no longer loves her and a situation where the devil is attacking their relationship?
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In the first case, she has to walk away and in the second she must fight right?
Hi, Sophia. If your boyfriend is acting like he no longer loves you then your relationship is going through a dry patch. It’s not a break-up it’s just a break down.
You could try to revive it again by going back to doing the things that brought you together.
However, the best way is always to sit down and kindly talk about it –
“My love, I feel like we are no longer as we used to be. I remember the days we used to call each other, and the days I would make you smile.
I think those were amazing days in our lives, and if you still want us to have those days again – I just want you to know I’m willing to help us work on anything that took them away.”
No accusations. No blaming. You are just sharing how you feel.
Then about the devil issue…
If people are lying about you or your boyfriend, then you can say the devil is after your relationship.
If misfortunes keep happening in your relationship – then maybe you could blame the devil.
But if your boyfriend is cheating, becoming verbally abusive or letting himself develop interests for other women – then I think blaming the devil could be just a technique your mind is using because it fears to accept reality.
The reality is, people make their own choices, and your boyfriend is making his.
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