According to men, here is a woman worth keeping…
i) Complain less and compliment more
That means focusing more on his strengths than his weaknesses.
For every complaint, make sure you have said for compliments first.
Complaining without complimenting is nagging.
ii) Be the source of his self-confidence
Help him believe in himself and never make him feel like he can’t think or he is “stupid” in some way.
Men will never forget people who devalue them.
iii) Comfort him when he is discouraged
Life can be slow, and fulfilling personal goals can take longer than expected; tell him “Let’s give it time.”
When business gets unpredictable tell him, “With proper marketing, and patience, there will be more clients.”
The future is ever uncertain but you can be the voice of his courage.
iv) Live a Worry-Free Life
There is nothing more unattractive than a worried wife. She gets emotional over small issues and grows old too quickly.
Life is already serious; your man doesn’t need your serious face to remind him.
v) Be Confident and show it
Don’t be insecure and always afraid of being “left for somebody else.” Never do anything “to keep your partner,” do everything because you love your partner and you want both of you to be happy.
vi) Look good
Every man wants a woman who looks splendidly and dresses with class.
Attractiveness is the first thing men see when they meet any woman.
The first thing we see is who you are on the outside.
We don’t see who you are on the inside because we don’t walk with X-Rays.
We will learn of the inner person with time.
vii) Control your Anger
A woman’s anger is a complete turn-off for men.
That day when you had gone out together, and you lashed out at the waitress with your sharp tongue – that was the day your relationship started to dwindle.
viii) Learn to ask not Command
He calls you Queen because he is the King. Treat him like a king and he will never regret calling you, his queen.
For further development I encourage you to read the book Secrets of Fascinating Womanhood. I don’t agree with everything in it, but it’s absolutely helpful.
It is a book every woman must read whether married or single.
Above all, show up when I run a Women’s Tea Party near you. It’s a women’s special conference and workshop that I run in different cities and countries worldwide.
It helps women understand men much better, and also equips you with skills to develop a happy long lasting love relationship.
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