I’m going to answer this not as a coach but as a man.
These days women give us the benefits of husbands when we are still boyfriends. We touch, kiss and get sex.
For that reason we are not in a hurry to be husbands. I mean what would we be missing?
Maybe you are saying “so is marriage all about sex?” The truth is even a cook can cook for a man and a maid can wash his clothes for him.
Even his sister can keep him company. What makes you different from all the women surrounding him is the level of sexual relationship that you share.
Sex is so precious in marriage that no marriage would stand without it. In a marriage, sex can happen even if a couple is fighting. Don’t ever underestimate it.
And don’t give it to a man who doesn’t deserve it because you are the one who will feel short changed.
Marriage is the only thing that makes a man deserve the way in-between your legs.
If you can’t live with him, don’t sleep with him – and don’t think letting him sleep with you can ever make him want to live with you.
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