TAPIWA: I’m 18 years old. The problem is I’m not really good when it comes to relationships… I’ve dated 4 girls now, my longest relationship lasted for 6 months and the rest are only two months long.
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And sometimes it feels like I’m the only one pushing. How do you really tell if a girl is in to you or if she is just after that little money you have?
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Also is it okay to date someone older. Is it safe for me or there could be after effects? I’m going to be single for a little while but I really think I will need some advice…
The first advice is, you need to be single for a long while not just a little while.
Be friends with girls, talk and have fun – but don’t bother yourself with attaching strings for now…
Definitely, you are not getting married until about seven years from now.
There is no dating relationship that easily lasts seven years without breaking up. So dating early is setting yourself up for heartbreaks.
To be honest, most relationships that have no marriage intentions only last two to three months…it’s normal but very sad.
It’s sad because, at that rate, seven years from now you will be having at least twenty-five heartbreaks inside your chest.
Or the heartbreaks would have turned you into a serial heartbreaker and womanizer.
When it comes to age I say stick to girls who are younger than you. Older girls can teach you habits you aren’t ready to learn.
Studies show that most boys lose their virginity to girls who are about six months older than them or more. (Maybe he will be also trying to prove himself a man).
Once a girl initiates you into sex, touching or kissing; it can be a struggle to let go.
Remember a bad habit can be easy to start but difficult to stop.
Prevention is always better than cure.
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