In the case of Adam and Eve, a woman came to the man. For Jacob and Rachel, the man went to the woman. That simply means – there is no particular formula!
If you play among the good, love will come to find you there.
If you play with the rich, love will come to find you there too.
If you hang out with the bad, love will still come looking for you.
All you have to do is associate with people of the right character so that when love finds you, you can grow in love with the right person.
Some people say they must see visions from God that confirms if the partner is really the one. The truth is that doesn’t happen for everyone and it doesn’t have to.
If you start giving God formulas you will lose the person he has gifted you with. Formulas are just church traditions. Traditions make the word of God to be of no effect.
Most of you will dispute that point, but don’t worry after enough errors you will come to the truth that God doesn’t choose your spouse for you.
Divine wisdom only advises you on the right qualities to look for and the qualities to avoid.
He gives you discernment and it’s up to you to use it or ignore it.
Someone will come into your life and you will find that person is NOT worth losing – most probably because of their character, and how you get along.
Or you will meet someone and be sure he/she is meant to be yours, most likely because you complete each other in some way…
You are compatible enough that you can call that person “born of my born, flesh of my flesh.”
You can meet anywhere – in church, in a bus or on your way from the loo. Don’t put formulas to this, just relax and let love find you.
God speaks through the intuitions of your heart. If you feel like your heart is saying something special about a person, it could be God speaking.
However, don’t follow your heart because your heart can be deceived. Test your intuition before you trust it. Take time to know that person better.
If you keep having strange dreams about someone, or if your soul is restless or fearful in that person’s presence – it could be a sign that you should walk away even though you thought you had found something special.
Above all, look for someone that you can fulfil destiny with. Loving each other and living together are two different things.
Don’t just settle for a person that you can love, settle for a person that you can both love and live with.
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