ANTHONY: Is it normal to feel nothing with certain girls? Like I’m told a boy and a girl can’t be just friends. But I feel normal just like I do with guys when I’m around my girlfriends.
It’s normal to feel totally nothing for certain girls. It is also normal to fool yourself into believing you are not feeling anything when deep inside you really do.
You just don’t like her face but you do like her figure, you don’t like the way she walks but you like the way she talks.
If we give you enough number of years one day you will find yourself considering marrying her even though you know she is not attractive to you.
That is the time you will say to yourself… “wait a minute, but I don’t love this girl in that way…what’s going on with me.”
When boy meets girl, it doesn’t take anyone’s attention to start the chemical reactions.
When a boy and a girl are just friends, either both of them have feelings for each other but are scared to open up, or one of them has feelings but is afraid to let them show.
The day you commit to someone else is when one of your “friends” will say…
“To be honest, I really hoped we could have something going on. I’m happy for you, you have found someone that makes you happy, but forgive me if I can’t text you as I used to. I’m just feeling down…alone!”
If you are really sure you don’t have feelings for a girl whom you are best friends with, that means you can be sure she is the one with the feelings and hiding it.
The same goes for girls who have male friends too. If you are sure you feel nothing for him that means you can be sure he is the one who does.
Boy girl friendships are normally kept together by a subtle and unnoticeable level of “chemistry.” Look into your heart and you will find that to be true.
That is why the old adage goes,
“A boy and a girl may be just friends, but at one point or another, they will fall for each other. Maybe for a long time, maybe for a short time, maybe forever.”
I hope it will be forever for you.
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