LUKE: I feel I love too much and I’m told it’s not normal. That I’m too nice or too understanding. I don’t fight. I appreciate goodness. I see the good in the worst. I am naturally proactive. I forgive people easily.
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This has made me stop dating, I want to understand the scope of relationships or is it that I meet the wrong type?
You can’t go about feeling bad for being good.
If you love someone who doesn’t love you… then you lose nothing when you lose her.
She would have lost someone who loves her but you would have lost someone who doesn’t.
It’s nice to be nice if you are nice for good reasons. If you are nice because you fear to lose her – then your niceness will lead to sadness.
It’s difficult to respect the “Yes” of a person who never says “No”.
Remember your boundaries in love. If you are a boyfriend you are a boyfriend not a husband or parent.
There are some things that are never your responsibility to buy.
There are some people that you just can’t entrust the rest of your life with.
In a relationship power belongs to the one who cares less.
If you find that you are the only one who is putting effort for a relationship to work, take that as a red flag to call it quits.
You can only decide to love but you can’t decide to be loved.
You can’t make a person love you no matter how much you do or give.
Some men have given money, but it couldn’t buy them love.
Some girls have given sex and some have given babies only to find, “sex doesn’t make him love you and a baby doesn’t make him stay.”
The people that love you are more important than the people you love.
The people you love can betray you but those who truly love you just can’t do it.
I say,
Remember to love those that love you, and to care for them that care for you. You are taken for granted if you care carelessly.
– MOFFAT MACHINGURA
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