THULEKA: I am a successful business lady (and I believe where I’m going is far greater than where I am).
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Anyway my question is, should I, as a lady, put it upfront always that I need a guy who is financially loaded? If not, then what kind of guy is good for any lady?
You just reminded me of this story,
One girl asked her grandma, “Grandma, should I marry for money or marry for love?”
Then after a mini-second pause her grandma lifted her face and said,
“My dear, hang out with the rich and marry for love.”
What grandma meant was that it is possible to find both.
The other meaning was that you will fall in love where you hang out.
Samson fell in love with Delilah because he was hanging out among the Philistines.
If you want a partner from another race, go hang out in that race. If you want a Christian partner, go hang out among Christians.
If you want a Buddhist partner, go hangout among them. Hangout among the rich if you want a rich partner and among the good if you want a good one.
Love will come looking for you where you hangout.
Some Men can get insecure when they earn less than their wives. For that reason, most times finding a guy with more money than you is a great choice…
However, the most important thing is to find a man who is serious with life.
Though not yet rich you can see he is doing his best with what he has and has dreams of a brighter future.
Since you have made your own wealth I’m sure you can recognize a man who has the potential to make his.
You are rich because money is among your values. For that reason I advise you to find a man who values wealth, success and honest hard work as much as you do.
If by any chance he is less wealthy than you, I advise you to remember that being a CEO at work doesn’t make you a CEO at home.
The same goes for men, we are CEOs only in our workplace offices.
At home man and woman are either husband or wife; and we must learn to love each other because Love is NOT taught at business school.
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