SABELO: Though we are in a relationship we always act like we are just friends. It doesn’t feel like a relationship: no calls, no dates, but we both love each other and don’t want to lose each other.
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We really make each other happy, and we are miserable if we go on to date other people.
The greatest love is friendship. The closest partners are friends, and they make the most stable marriages.
Then the fact that you don’t want to lose each other shows there is chemistry between the two of you.
You two love birds actually seem to have it all that could make a relationship work. All you need to do is to add a dash of commitment in developing a relationship that goes far in life.
Don’t try to be too romantic about it. Just continue to be friends, have fun, go zip-lining and if you can, sky diving.
You are crazy people in your own way, and every relationship has its own differences. Don’t try to do what others do – just do what makes both of you happy.
And do open up to each other. Tell each other how you feel when you are apart. Tell each other what you like about each other, and commit to getting time to discover more of what you like in each other.
Find a relationship coach, and be sure to jump in when you hear of any of my seminars running in your neighbourhood.
Love flourishes in an environment that celebrates it and wishes it well.
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