STELLA: My friend is deeply in love with a married man. I told her that “It’s not good to be a second option, no one knows how serious he is… he might use you then dump you later.”
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Right now she is two months pregnant and the man promised to marry her at five months of pregnancy. I told my friend not to trust this man but she can’t even listen to me.
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The man is rich hey, even promising to buy her a Mercedes Benz. How do I help her? I love my friend… what should I do? I’m confused. Please help.
If she didn’t know he is married I would say she was fooled.
But if she is clearly aware as in this case, I am ashamed to say she is being as inconsiderate as the man she is cheating with.
Lions don’t eat lions, neither can dogs eat other dogs. Respect another woman because you are a woman too.
Let no woman be the reason for another woman’s sorrow.
Every night another woman drops her head on a pillow drenched with tears – she is weeping and crying for that man you are cuddling with in that hotel room.
If you think you can find happiness by causing pain to others, then you are deceiving yourself.
You may laugh but you will never be happy…
Even if you look away when you read this, life will still look at you.
All the bitter tears shed by that other woman, are not falling to the ground – instead they are falling on the garden of your life and whatsoever you have sown expecting joy you shall taste on the day of harvest and find it bitter.
Karma is a force from heaven.
I say to your friend…
You are making yourself a bed of roses, but on the day you will try sleeping on it you will learn that roses have thorns.
You ask “What should I do?“
Most unfortunately, every one of us is individually responsible for the paths that we take and the choices we make.
From what you say, you have made an effort to correct your friend, but your correction has been disregarded.
Some people learn the hard way.
She has chosen the hard way.
Maintain your stance in expressing to her that, though you love her, you consider her choices to be totally unethical; that money or a car is not everything; and that she deserves better than being a “blesser’s” mistress.
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