A HEARTBREAK CAFÉ is that kind of love that is setup for break-up.
Right from the beginning it bares some clues that it will end in tears.
We deeply fall in love only to find out later when it’s over, that it was not love at all.
In heartache and pain, we ask ourselves…
Isn’t it true love should never die? Isn’t it love is forever? Even the Bible says “prophecies can cease, knowledge may pass away,” yet this is the test that love is true… “Love never fails” (1Cor 13:8). It even says “many waters cannot quench love; rivers cannot wash it away” (SS 8:7)…
How come this love was true yet it failed?
Just having that question in your mind, could be a sign that it wasn’t love at all.
It was just a lie that seemed real.
It was a promise that was never meant to be true.
The forever that had a deadline.
It felt like falling in love, but it was falling in a Heartbreak Café!
It could have been avoided, but sometimes we are too in love to notice why!
This book is not meant to remind you of the past. The past is in the tomb; tomorrow is in your womb. The past is past, the future matters more.
Neither is this book meant to frighten you. Love is meant to be the most exciting place… and you can still find the true excitement of love.
But for love to be forever, first it must be true.
I also understand a scarce commodity of today is true love. That guy you see heartbroken to tears is NOT weak, that girl who fell pregnant and got dumped is NOT a fool. These were just people looking for someone to love and be loved by.
Don’t be deceived, everyone needs love. Every one young or old; slim or fat; tall or thin… we all want and need to be in the arms of somebody who truly cares for us. Anyone who tells you otherwise, is lying.
I had such a cynical classmate in one of my Love and Relationships Seminars. He never wanted to hear anything about love, saying it doesn’t exist. Funny enough, he became one of the first people in that relationships class to find his true love. He has been married for years now and you should see how he still blushes when he talks about his wife.
He hated love because he had been hurt in love. So it’s NOT love that he so strongly hated, it was being hurt. That’s what I helped him see during the seminar.
Get this: You are fine without anyone who loves you, but with someone who truly loves you, you are way better. Love is a timeless commodity, and that need is as universal as the air we breathe.
Today’s problem is that people are quickly falling in love and falling out of it just as quickly. Instant coffee, instant millionaires, instant love, instant sex, instant marriage, and most unfortunately instant divorce. In this generation almost everything is instant – and just as short lived.
Our celebrities are marrying today and divorcing tomorrow. Six out of twelve of American marriages are ending in divorce; the rates are as acutely highly in England and being shipped into Africa and Japan through media and social networks. All round the world around, heartbreaks and divorce have been a pandemic. Our world has turned into a Heartbreak Café.
For others, heartbreak has not been a simple café; heartbreak has been a lodge. Life has been one heartache after another. When they thought they had found, they realized they had lost again.
The truth is, however, no-matter how many times you have been disappointed you never deserved it. It was not your fault. You never chose it, no-one does. What you chose was love. Only that you instead embraced a mirage…
I pray that lessons in this book will lead you to the right person at the right time. I pray that someday someone will come into your life and make you see why it never worked with anyone else.
There is fake love and there is true love. You need to recognize fake love when it comes so that you won’t waste your time loving in a loveless bond. Then you need to know true love so that when it comes you will not take it for granted. How I Kissed Heartbreak Goodbye is all about escaping fake love and finding true love.
How I Kissed Heartbreak Goodbye will help you escape the Heartbreak Café. You don’t have to be a statistic of divorce or heartbreak… if it happened before; you are not worth it once more. Believe me you are worth more than that.
There is nothing as painful as seeing the person you love, love somebody else. It hurts to send love letters that get spit out as violently as the ATM spits out your card when you mistake your pin. It hurts to love and not be loved back. But if you lost someone you never thought you could, you can still find someone you never thought you would.
Many people where I am called to speak around the world have been learning these secrets for over a decade now, and you are about to discover the same thing too… it is extremely possible to Escape the Heartbreak Café.
Love is complex but NOT complicated. If your relationship status is “Complicated” there is something completely wrong about that relationship.
If you have ever been heartbroken at any point in your life, I prepared a FREE Heartbreak Recovery Email Course that you can join now, and complete it while reading this book at the same time. Inside this course, you will also be able to send me any love and relationships questions you have. That will help you start kissing your heart ache goodbye.
Click here now to join your free Heartbreak Recovery Email Course.
Again: Reading this book while taking this Email Course will quicken and cement your healing. That’s why I emphasise that you take it now. Next page has more details on it.
In our next chapter, we are going to learn nine signs that help us recognize fake love right from the beginning…
