THE SECRET TO lasting love is not only in seeking the right person, but most times being the right person yourself.
When you find the right person, and you are the right person – your relationship will be happy. Yet in all this, being the right person is the most important.
That’s because when you are the right person, recognise a right person becomes easier.
Heartbreaks are becoming a pandemic and divorce rates are increasing chiefly because we have become a generation that is consumed with changing exteriors…
Countless times we change jobs, mates, and friends, but we never think of changing our own selves.
We have manicure, pedicure and facial moisturizers which smoothen our outer-selves but cannot get rid of the roughness and wretchedness we all have developed deep within…
Many relationship-advice websites out there are only giving people tricks that improve how they should act to win someone they are attracted to, but without improving who they really are.
As a result, we have developed people who are great in personality yet poor in character. We have trained people to give beautiful smiles, but we have never taught them to mean the smiles they give.
Many are kind spoken, very few are kind hearted. Beware of being fooled by a good personality into loving a person of bad character.
Seek a loving person, not merely a person who loves you.
For all the presents that he buys and all the nights that he spoils you, has he ever done the same for his parents, brothers and sisters?
She is so kind, respectful and jelly soft-spoken when she is with you. Is it the same respect that she wields to her father and mother?
Charity begins at home. The love that he/she shows at home is the only love that he/she can give you – if not less.
No-matter how good our partners may make us feel, they cannot love us for long if within their hearts they are not loving-people.
In the next chapter we are exploring personal qualities fit for love. People without the following qualities usually find themselves heartbroken.
This is because though they have rejected heart-break love and found true love; their character pushes true love away.
Develop yourself for the sake of love!
In the next chapter, we are separating men from boys. You will learn the 6 qualities that make a male a man.
If you are a man, develop yourself into those qualities because no relationship lasts without them.
If you are a woman, learn to identify those 6 qualities in men – because loving a man without those 6 qualities is a waste of time…
